Sunday, January 20, 2019

January 20, 2019

From Mom - Life is Short:

Dear Sam,

I'm currently squished in a mini van with seven adults (My Dad, Melody, Keith, Shirley and her dog, Chris, and Mark) coming back from my cousin's funeral, which was in Penticton, B.C.

When I heard that Will had died from a heart attack while resting in the Frankfurt, Germany airport, I thought it was sad to die so young and also sad to die far from home, but I wasn't planning on attending the funeral because I wasn't really close to him (he's Uncle Donnie's oldest son). Then a few days later I heard that Will had requested in his personal directive that his father (my uncle) NOT be in attendance. (They were estranged from each other.) And THAT was the saddest thing of all! Immediately I felt a spiritual prompting to attend this funeral, to support Uncle Donnie and to help in any way. But ... I didn't want to do it. The feeling intensified until I understood it truly was the Spirit, so I made arrangements to go. Worth it. 

I got to spend time with Mark and learn from him, visit and comfort my uncle, reconnect with my Auntie Carol (who I haven't seen in 26 years), get a Father's blessing from my Dad, see some beautiful scenery, and get some important perspective on life. I was very glad I went despite the inconvenience and sacrifice. 


Dad sent me the following photos from home while I was away.

1) We ordered some new bar stools from Amazon. They arrived fully assembled and Dad had to transport them in the car somehow.



2) We (Dad, mostly ... And Abby and Mia) made a homemade "sofa table" to fit behind the couch.



3) Come Follow Me and food.


4) Ben making perogies.


Love you lots, Sammy Boy!

Mom

From Sam - End of Transfer 9

Hello everybody,

Time flies, I've been out longer than a year. All the old missionaries always said that you lose count after a year and it's very true. I'm done 9 transfers and I'm losing count about how long I've been out. All I know is that it has been longer then a year. Though thoughts of home are always present and thoughts of how much time I have to wait is always there. But I'm loving everyday here in the mission field. At first when you meet people they are strangers, but if you spend the time to get to know them, they could be your best friends. I have gotten into the habit of acting like you are best friends with people the very first time we meet. It's very fun because you never know who you have been friends with before this life.

I'm sorry this is short. But I love you all,

Elder Smith

I'll send the rest of the pictures.

Pictures:

-L/R Syndrome to the extreme


-Spur Monday


-The big statue in front of the mall




-Nature photo. Me with Elder Madsen and Catherine coming from an appointment





-Messi Pepsi(Elder Williams)



-Me baking Brownies








-Carmel Popcorn in the making




-Dinner at Yankho's






































Monday, January 14, 2019

January 14, 2019

From Dad - Week 3:

Dear Sam,

We have had a good week here at home. With a new year comes new goals and aspirations. We had a good family planning last Sunday and tonight we'll see how we did. Abby and Mia were pretty good about following their learning plan.


We had a bit of an adventure this week as Josh has been out looking for work. First of all, Josh got 2 offers to work at Classic Landscapes doing snow removal and Dennis Prince mentioned he was looking for workers at Airdar. Both offered Josh work, and he started at AIRDAR this week. As part of getting set up to work at Classic again, Josh had to go into the tree farm office to fill out application forms and such. Unfortunately as he was coming up to the driveway there, he hit some icy spots and started to spin. He ended up doing a 360 and skidding his back end over the rocks beside the driveway! Bent the tie rods and supporting structures on the tire and popped it good. Fortunately, Bro. Rodriquez was there at work and was able to drive him home. For me the hardest part of car accidents is the inconvenience of getting it all cleaned up. I stewed over how to get the car to the mechanics and after calls to Buchak and Uhaul, we made a plan to take the truck and dolly it back. The day we were planning to do it, the truck wouldn't start! Between that and learning from Josh that the tire was popped and pushed up against the side of the wheel well, I decided to bite the bullet and get it towed. $300 later it was at the mechanics and we just got word Friday that the damage was $600. Sigh. After all was said and done, it's just money and I'm not sure why I stressed over it as much as I did. 


Life can throw curve balls at you in an instant. This week Ben had to pile all his Social Studies semester long project into 1 week. He decided to do his book report on "The Prince", an old classic by Machiavelli. In it there is this quote that talks of how fortune is fickle but claims that with preparation, we can take the edge off its consequences:

I hold that it could be true that fortune is the arbiter of half of actions, but that she still leaves the other half, or close to it, to be governed by us. And she resembles one of those violent rivers which, when they become enraged, flood the plains, tear down trees and buildings, lift up the earth from one side and deposit it on the other... But this does not mean that men, when times are quiet, cannot take precautions with floodgates and embankments, so that, when the rivers swell up again, either they would move along through a canal, or their rush would not be so unchecked and harmful. The same happens with fortune, who displays her force where there is no prepared resource to resist her.  

I think this is partially why the Lord and his prophets encourage self-reliance, food storage, getting out of debt etc. When we are prepared, we fear less because we are able to bring to bear our preparations to mitigate the challenges. Simple example for us was having some short term savings that we could use for the accident coverage. Lowers the stress :) !

This week Mom took the girls to the new Alberta museum up town. It used to be over by our old apartments near 124 st in Edmonton and I believe Mom took you and Steph and Josh there sometimes, though you likely won't remember.


Last night we made home made pizza. It worked out well and we got to use one of the Chinese Christmas gifts Josh got. Can you spot it :)


I'm still getting used to 2 hour church. The shortened Primary lesson is making me rethink how I prepare. with about 25 minutes, we really only have time for about 2 main key points especially if we want them to do an activity like coloring. I wanted the kids in my class (Valiant 9) to get used to reading scriptures so we took turns reading 4 vs each, but ended up having some good discussions until I realized that only 3 out of the 6 kids in my class had read and I only had 10 minutes left. I still had 4 points I wanted to cover, so had do do some quick adjustments and abridging. It'll take a little time to get used to I think!

Had a couple of questionos about your mission that you may have answered already: 

  1. What is the most exotic African animal you've seen so far, 
  2. Are there any game reserves nearby where the classic African animals are? 
  3. I imagine missionaries don't get to go to them?
  4. In your last email you talked about messing up in front of others helps with pride... can you elaborate? Any funny stories around that comment?
  5. Are you used to driving on the left side of the road now? Might have to re-train when you get home :)

Love you Sam. Have a great week!

Dad.

From Sam - Small and Simple Things

Hello Everyone!!!

This week flew by and now I'm sitting here wondering what I should write because it feels like yesterday that I was doing the same thing.

Two mini miracles happened this week. I have been struggling to find serious people and since the last zone conference I have been pumped up to do missionary work. Last Sunday a new family moved into the branch and now stay in my area. The wife is a return missionary and the husband is not a member and they have a pair of twins. The husband wants to be baptized and i'm seeing them tomorrow. God is pretty much handing me a baptism. (I just hope I don't get transferred) The second miracle was while I was finding I decided to know on gates that I have already knocked on. One of these gates someone let us in and allowed us to teach. Instead of teaching a lesson we first got to know her and 5 minutes in she opened up because of a question I asked and she talked for the next 20 minutes about her concerns. While I was listening there were times when I wanted to speak but I felt that I just needed to listen. By the end of the lesson she thanked us for coming and said that people don't usually listen to her(She was a middle child so I could relate to her really well) This morning we saw her again and taught the Plan of Salvation(She read the whole pamphlet the day before) and she said that it answered lots of her questions and wants to learn more about the Book of Mormon and everything else. 
These were the spiritual highlights this week.

The biggest temporal highlight this week happened while I was driving home at the end of the day with all 4 of us missionaries. It was dark and everyone was driving so slowly. When I passed them all and just before I turned into the road that leads to our compound I saw a dog on the road just a little too late. Before I could react I ran over it. To the other missionaries it looked like I didn't even care because I didn't even flinch. I was going about 60 kilometers an hour when I hit it and it all happened so fast. Of course I feel sorry for the dog but we all know that all dogs go to heaven. We found out later that it was a hyena, so if I didn't hit it I would never have known.

Missionary work is amazing. There are times when I feel like 12 more months is too long for me to handle but I also know how fast it will go because this past year just happened and I don't know where it went. It's taken me a year to finally start to figure out what I am doing. The first year was the figuring out year and this year is the figured out year. I  pray I will use it to the fullest. 

I love you all, Kia Kaha Kite Longomi(Stay strong in the Gospel),

-Elder Smith

Pictures:

-The shortest missionary(Elder Akpan) and the tallest missionary(Elder Madsen) in the mission





-Dinner with my Malawian family 










-Elder Funaki ready to kill me(Don't make a Tongan angry)



-Me trying out a Rasta Man hat






Monday, January 7, 2019

January 7, 2019

From Mom - New Year Bliss:

Dear Sam,

Weather report.... It's 7:20 a.m., pitch black outside and snowing. We now have a layer of 5 cm of snow over sheer ice. It certainly makes things interesting and we wouldn't want life to be boring anyway, would we? Ha!

I spent the last week getting ready for Primary. With 65 children and eight classes with two teachers each, I learned what it meant to be the one organizing a group. It was a new experience for me and not a bad one. Lucky Josh got to be with me while I was organizing the Primary Room ðŸ˜‰. We were able to squeeze everyone in the big Primary Room and then everyone goes to their classes. Boom. Done. No more messing around with switching Junior and Senior Primary around. The teachers don't know what to do with only 20 minutes of teaching. I like the shorter Church though. I feel like the Church Leadership is just not messing around anymore. The ownership of spiritual strength and knowledge is now on the individual (and probably always should've been) and Church is meant to support and strengthen. 

I like the new Come Follow Me Program. Every morning last week we sat around the table with our scriptures, books and pens and discussed what we were learning. We asked questions of each other and answered them as a family, had some laughs, had some tender moments but mostly loved learning together, like we do. It's a unifying experience for us a family and extending to the ward. I like being a part of it. Edith Hartmann got up to bear her testimony yesterday and said, "I guess I will have to get used to talking to myself because my family doesn't understand." There is much we can do to support each other, and really, isn't that an important part of what life is? To strengthen and support those around us? I think so. We'll have Edith over soon. 


We had the Robisons over yesterday after church. They don't get invited out much due to the size of their family, but they must have loved it because they stayed for six hours! Haha. I had to stay late after church for a baptism and Dad did everything! The chile, the dishes, the set up, the welcome ... Everything! I got home, company was there and everything was ready including the food. Kudos to Dad for being amazing. 


This upcoming week is the week we get back into routine and back to work after the Christmas holidays. We just got a new loveseat to match with our couch and now I can finally get to work finishing the front room. This means making a coffee table and a sofa table (to go behind the love seat) and maybe some drapes. This may not be exciting to you but it sure is to me. I love making our home into a welcoming space.

The girls are refocusing their education plans for the next four months. Skiing is high on the priority list and for Abby, learning French. Happily, we have a Dad who keeps us working toward higher ideals. Last night he had to force us up to the table to plan. We all went reluctantly but by the end, were all excited for being the master of our own lives. Again. Good thing he is around and takes his role as Father seriously. 

I only have one picture for the week (the rest I stole from Dad). Abby and Mia are becoming cupcake masters, much to the chagrin of our waistlines. They are baked from scratch and beautiful to look at. These were banana maple pecan cupcakes. Yum! After we ate these they made another batch a few days later. A chocolate one. They said, "I wish it was someone's birthday today, so we could bring them these cupcakes." I looked it up on the ward website and it was Lydia Rector's birthday, so the girls walked up and dropped off seven cupcakes in the shape of a "7" for her seventh birthday. Apparently Lydia was really happy about it although she didn't show it on her face. ðŸ˜‚


Oh! And I almost forgot to tell you that the New Year's Dance was a big hit! Ben and Josh said they both had never been, and it's true that we're usually in Sparwood. We all showed up to help decorate (except Mia, who was at the Driessen's) and chaperone, so the Bishop gave Abby permission to go to the dance despite the fact she's not quite old enough. I was proud of her though. She decided to get in and DANCE and not feel shy or awkward about it. And the boys noticed. And we noticed the boys noticing. It was all very weird for me. She is a beautiful girl though, no doubt about it.



Genetically, I'm not sure how she can be my daughter. Lol!


The Bonnells will soon be our new neighbours. They are busy getting their house ready to move into and Josh, Ben and I had a chance to go help them paint last week. Lots of people showed up and Nikole just cried with how much a group of people could accomplish in such short a time. The Wizard Lake community is growing!

That's about it for this week, Sam. We sure love you. We have lots of people ask after you and we always tell them you are doing fantastic. 

How are your clothes holding up?
Did you get your package yet?
Will you stay in Malawi the rest of your mission? Or have a chance to go back to Zambia?
Malawi is a poorer country than Zambia, right? Can you see a difference in the people?
What was your highlight of the week?

Love you!

Mom

From Sam - Questions Answered:

Hey Mom,

Thanks for the update. Just like you, I love the details, Thanks.

In answer to your questions:
1. My clothes are holding up pretty well, it's only my 1 year mark shirt that I stopped using.
2. I haven't got my package yet. I found out the post office workers are at strike right now or something like that. I was told they haven't got paid in almost 5 months.
3. I'm not sure how long I'll stay in Malawi. Usually it's a year. So if that's the case my last three months will be in Zambia. But I will never know until it happens.
4. The people are way different, the currency in different, the language is close to that in Lusaka, But think of it like this: Zambia is a third world country and Malawi is a seventh world country.
5. The highlight if my week was MLC and the Mission tour/Zone conference. Being the Zone leader I had the privilege of picking up my mission president and Elder Palmer from the airport, so I got to have some personal time with the area president. He's a really cool guy. He told me to tell you that he told me I'm a great missionary and that you all will be proud of me.

I love you all.

-Elder Smith

From Sam - Charity is the Pure Love of Christ:

Hello everyone,

This week has been a great week of instruction. I'm in Malawi but because of MLC(Missionary Leadership Counsel) I had to fly to Lusaka for two days then back again to Malawi. At the MLC we got to receive instruction from the area president, Elder Palmer, he is so cool and I learned so much from him. But the biggest highlight of my week was on the flight back from Lusaka. From Lusaka to Lilongwe I had to go through Harare, Zimbabwe. On the flight to Harare I sat beside someone who had lots of safari stories, but while I waited for the plane to take off(I was seated at the very last seat in the plane) I started to talk to the person on the other side of the plane(Same Isle) and because no one was sitting there for the next flight I sat beside her to continue our conversation. She was going home to Nairobi, Kenya and she does computer programming a lot like the job Dad does. Which led to our conversation about video games and I described and explained my favorite game, Undertale. The flight was an hour and a half and about 40 minutes into our conversation the topic of discussion changed to who I was and what I was doing, which led to me teaching the entire restoration to her. It was a very fast flight. I got to share my testimony with her and I wish I had an extra Book of Mormon because I read some scriptures to her and she expressed a desire to read the Book of Mormon. I was out of pamphlets because I've been using them the whole trip, but I did have one last Gospel of Jesus Christ pamphlet. I gave it to her, told her to go to Mormon.org and gave her my email and said"If this changes your life, let me know" and then I had to go. She is 11 years older then me but even still I want her to find the gospel and to be happy. I was able to see her as Christ saw her. The thought of only teaching her to get numbers or to say I did a good job was not present. I sincerely wanted her and still want her to be happy.

I spent three days in Zambia but when I got back to Malawi I was so happy, there was so much I missed. Lots of the words I would use I could start using again. It was nice.
Yesterday we had our zone conference and Elder Palmer was there and I got to learn so much from him. He helped me link my life as a missionary and my missionary purpose as the same thing. It doesn't matter how much you know, there is still lots more to understand. And there is no better way to get rid of pride then to mess up in front of others. It's not a good thing to have pride, so sometimes it's a good thing to mess up in front of others, it's the best way to stay humble.
One thing Elder Palmer taught was "Don't use hedge clippers to mow the lawn." it doesn't matter how hard we work, if we are not using the right or best tools we will get very little done. if you want to mow a lawn you want to use the Gas powered lawn mower. The principles of goal setting is universal and if we want to achieve our goals we need to get to work and use the right tools. 

I love you all, 
-Elder Smith

Pictures:

-Me and my MTC group at MLC after we hit our year mark



-Me and the Blantyre Zone leaders Enjoying our Mountain Dew(You can't find Mountain Dew in Malawi)


-Pictures with Elder and Sister Palmer(And my companion)






-Pictures from inside a Tak-Tak(Mini Taxi)






-Kawale Squad at Spur



Videos:

Tak-Tak part 1


Tak-Tak part 2



December 19, 2019

Home Coming!!!