Monday, January 7, 2019

January 7, 2019

From Mom - New Year Bliss:

Dear Sam,

Weather report.... It's 7:20 a.m., pitch black outside and snowing. We now have a layer of 5 cm of snow over sheer ice. It certainly makes things interesting and we wouldn't want life to be boring anyway, would we? Ha!

I spent the last week getting ready for Primary. With 65 children and eight classes with two teachers each, I learned what it meant to be the one organizing a group. It was a new experience for me and not a bad one. Lucky Josh got to be with me while I was organizing the Primary Room ðŸ˜‰. We were able to squeeze everyone in the big Primary Room and then everyone goes to their classes. Boom. Done. No more messing around with switching Junior and Senior Primary around. The teachers don't know what to do with only 20 minutes of teaching. I like the shorter Church though. I feel like the Church Leadership is just not messing around anymore. The ownership of spiritual strength and knowledge is now on the individual (and probably always should've been) and Church is meant to support and strengthen. 

I like the new Come Follow Me Program. Every morning last week we sat around the table with our scriptures, books and pens and discussed what we were learning. We asked questions of each other and answered them as a family, had some laughs, had some tender moments but mostly loved learning together, like we do. It's a unifying experience for us a family and extending to the ward. I like being a part of it. Edith Hartmann got up to bear her testimony yesterday and said, "I guess I will have to get used to talking to myself because my family doesn't understand." There is much we can do to support each other, and really, isn't that an important part of what life is? To strengthen and support those around us? I think so. We'll have Edith over soon. 


We had the Robisons over yesterday after church. They don't get invited out much due to the size of their family, but they must have loved it because they stayed for six hours! Haha. I had to stay late after church for a baptism and Dad did everything! The chile, the dishes, the set up, the welcome ... Everything! I got home, company was there and everything was ready including the food. Kudos to Dad for being amazing. 


This upcoming week is the week we get back into routine and back to work after the Christmas holidays. We just got a new loveseat to match with our couch and now I can finally get to work finishing the front room. This means making a coffee table and a sofa table (to go behind the love seat) and maybe some drapes. This may not be exciting to you but it sure is to me. I love making our home into a welcoming space.

The girls are refocusing their education plans for the next four months. Skiing is high on the priority list and for Abby, learning French. Happily, we have a Dad who keeps us working toward higher ideals. Last night he had to force us up to the table to plan. We all went reluctantly but by the end, were all excited for being the master of our own lives. Again. Good thing he is around and takes his role as Father seriously. 

I only have one picture for the week (the rest I stole from Dad). Abby and Mia are becoming cupcake masters, much to the chagrin of our waistlines. They are baked from scratch and beautiful to look at. These were banana maple pecan cupcakes. Yum! After we ate these they made another batch a few days later. A chocolate one. They said, "I wish it was someone's birthday today, so we could bring them these cupcakes." I looked it up on the ward website and it was Lydia Rector's birthday, so the girls walked up and dropped off seven cupcakes in the shape of a "7" for her seventh birthday. Apparently Lydia was really happy about it although she didn't show it on her face. ðŸ˜‚


Oh! And I almost forgot to tell you that the New Year's Dance was a big hit! Ben and Josh said they both had never been, and it's true that we're usually in Sparwood. We all showed up to help decorate (except Mia, who was at the Driessen's) and chaperone, so the Bishop gave Abby permission to go to the dance despite the fact she's not quite old enough. I was proud of her though. She decided to get in and DANCE and not feel shy or awkward about it. And the boys noticed. And we noticed the boys noticing. It was all very weird for me. She is a beautiful girl though, no doubt about it.



Genetically, I'm not sure how she can be my daughter. Lol!


The Bonnells will soon be our new neighbours. They are busy getting their house ready to move into and Josh, Ben and I had a chance to go help them paint last week. Lots of people showed up and Nikole just cried with how much a group of people could accomplish in such short a time. The Wizard Lake community is growing!

That's about it for this week, Sam. We sure love you. We have lots of people ask after you and we always tell them you are doing fantastic. 

How are your clothes holding up?
Did you get your package yet?
Will you stay in Malawi the rest of your mission? Or have a chance to go back to Zambia?
Malawi is a poorer country than Zambia, right? Can you see a difference in the people?
What was your highlight of the week?

Love you!

Mom

From Sam - Questions Answered:

Hey Mom,

Thanks for the update. Just like you, I love the details, Thanks.

In answer to your questions:
1. My clothes are holding up pretty well, it's only my 1 year mark shirt that I stopped using.
2. I haven't got my package yet. I found out the post office workers are at strike right now or something like that. I was told they haven't got paid in almost 5 months.
3. I'm not sure how long I'll stay in Malawi. Usually it's a year. So if that's the case my last three months will be in Zambia. But I will never know until it happens.
4. The people are way different, the currency in different, the language is close to that in Lusaka, But think of it like this: Zambia is a third world country and Malawi is a seventh world country.
5. The highlight if my week was MLC and the Mission tour/Zone conference. Being the Zone leader I had the privilege of picking up my mission president and Elder Palmer from the airport, so I got to have some personal time with the area president. He's a really cool guy. He told me to tell you that he told me I'm a great missionary and that you all will be proud of me.

I love you all.

-Elder Smith

From Sam - Charity is the Pure Love of Christ:

Hello everyone,

This week has been a great week of instruction. I'm in Malawi but because of MLC(Missionary Leadership Counsel) I had to fly to Lusaka for two days then back again to Malawi. At the MLC we got to receive instruction from the area president, Elder Palmer, he is so cool and I learned so much from him. But the biggest highlight of my week was on the flight back from Lusaka. From Lusaka to Lilongwe I had to go through Harare, Zimbabwe. On the flight to Harare I sat beside someone who had lots of safari stories, but while I waited for the plane to take off(I was seated at the very last seat in the plane) I started to talk to the person on the other side of the plane(Same Isle) and because no one was sitting there for the next flight I sat beside her to continue our conversation. She was going home to Nairobi, Kenya and she does computer programming a lot like the job Dad does. Which led to our conversation about video games and I described and explained my favorite game, Undertale. The flight was an hour and a half and about 40 minutes into our conversation the topic of discussion changed to who I was and what I was doing, which led to me teaching the entire restoration to her. It was a very fast flight. I got to share my testimony with her and I wish I had an extra Book of Mormon because I read some scriptures to her and she expressed a desire to read the Book of Mormon. I was out of pamphlets because I've been using them the whole trip, but I did have one last Gospel of Jesus Christ pamphlet. I gave it to her, told her to go to Mormon.org and gave her my email and said"If this changes your life, let me know" and then I had to go. She is 11 years older then me but even still I want her to find the gospel and to be happy. I was able to see her as Christ saw her. The thought of only teaching her to get numbers or to say I did a good job was not present. I sincerely wanted her and still want her to be happy.

I spent three days in Zambia but when I got back to Malawi I was so happy, there was so much I missed. Lots of the words I would use I could start using again. It was nice.
Yesterday we had our zone conference and Elder Palmer was there and I got to learn so much from him. He helped me link my life as a missionary and my missionary purpose as the same thing. It doesn't matter how much you know, there is still lots more to understand. And there is no better way to get rid of pride then to mess up in front of others. It's not a good thing to have pride, so sometimes it's a good thing to mess up in front of others, it's the best way to stay humble.
One thing Elder Palmer taught was "Don't use hedge clippers to mow the lawn." it doesn't matter how hard we work, if we are not using the right or best tools we will get very little done. if you want to mow a lawn you want to use the Gas powered lawn mower. The principles of goal setting is universal and if we want to achieve our goals we need to get to work and use the right tools. 

I love you all, 
-Elder Smith

Pictures:

-Me and my MTC group at MLC after we hit our year mark



-Me and the Blantyre Zone leaders Enjoying our Mountain Dew(You can't find Mountain Dew in Malawi)


-Pictures with Elder and Sister Palmer(And my companion)






-Pictures from inside a Tak-Tak(Mini Taxi)






-Kawale Squad at Spur



Videos:

Tak-Tak part 1


Tak-Tak part 2



Monday, December 31, 2018

December 31, 2018

From Dad - A Christmas to Remember

Hi Sam,

We LOVED talking with you on Christmas Day! We see lots of growth in you but still the same Sam we know and love!

I posted the recording of the video to the Blog. Had to split it into two parts.

For this week, even though it may be a bit long, I'm going to copy in my journal entry describing our Christmas week.

Dad's Journal Entry

This week has been a very eventful week. It was intentionally so, yet when best laid plans actually come together, it is often a bit surprising given the nature of mortality, Murphy’s law etc.

This year we decided to come down to my Mom and Dads to spend Christmas Day together with them vs. our tradition of having Christmas morning at home and traveling after Boxing Day. I suspect it was a decision partially based on seeing the struggles to help my grandparents re- locate and reinvent their lives in a care facility combined with a desire for my children to experience some of what my growing up Christmas experience was like.

Abby and especially Mia were quite uncomfortable with the change but they actually confirmed for me the value in doing that. Don’t want my children to become too comfortable and not experience the growth that good change brings.

So, as Jen and I looked ahead to how our Christmas experience might look, we felt it was important to look for ways to be anxiously engaged in making memories. We came up with the following agenda:

Sunday Dec. 23 - travel to Glenwood after attending the Devon ward Christmas meeting. Our family was involved in much of the program from Choir to special numbers and readings.

Monday, Dec 24 - help Mom and Dad with final preparations for Christmas. We had a wonderful evening which included the following highlights:
  • Seeing Demond and seeing him reconnect with his long lost son Daylen and his new grandson (Hannah’s baby)
  • Seeing my kids get involved in re-enacting the nativity.
  • Turkey dinner with all the trimmings
  • Driving Demond home and having a heart to heart about his struggles including breaking up with Roxanne.
 


Tuesday, Dec. 25 - Christmas Day - for Christmas we decided to re-enact some of my childhood tradition of not having all the presents wrapped and waiting to go into the tree area until all were up, had drunk egg nog and eaten a Christmas orange. As we were preparing to line up youngest to oldest, we were excited to get word from Sam that he was ready for a call. So we jumped on Google Hangouts, I hit the reforged button and we spent a sweet and joyful hour talking to Sam. Steph and Tyler joined in initially to share their big news by showing Sam their ultra-sound picture. Quick side note, Steph and Tyler Face Timed us the Sunday before Christmas on the way to Church to announce their joyful news of being pregnant and due on July 6. The screaming and craning to see the ultra sound pictures almost put me in the ditch!

Sam was bright and happy and thick with African accent. We took turns talking to him and on the end rejoices in his powerful closing testimony.


We enjoyed a fun gift exchange and I pushed all thoughts of how on earth we would transport everything back home till later.

In the afternoon, Josh, Jen and I joined Mom and Dad in a trip to Lethbridge to see G&G Smith. We visited Grandpa Smith first as Grandma was at Aunt Wendy’s for dinner. Grandpa was alternately lucid and remembering to forgetful and confused. Generally he was in good spirits though. I know my Dad prays for his mortal release just as soon as the Lord wills it. We then stopped by Wendy’s to see Grandma. I had a small talk with her and she expressed how very unexpectedly hard this stage of life has been especially with the selling of their house. This mortal test is never done till we pass through the veil. I hope I can be faithful to the end as they are being.

I found this at G&G Smith's apartment. Some insight into their previous lives!




We tried stopping at Carol and Joe’s but they weren’t home. Talked to Samantha briefly at the door. I missed seeing Carol again this year as she came while I was driving Demond home Christmas Eve only briefly. I miss her. How much am I willing to sacrifice to see her and minister to our relationship is the question I’m pondering today.

Wednesday, Dec. 26 - Boxing Day! Today we headed to Liz and Jeff’s with a stop at the church bookstore in Cardston to spend Grandma Bruce’s Christmas money($50 each). Gifted ranged from Rings to music books.

At the Bectell’s we enjoyed a hearty chili meal followed by a skate on their pond with a fire and treats. A rousing game of hockey left us happy and sore. Games and good followed to round out the day and aw stayed at the Liz and Jeff’s that night.

Thursday, Dec. 27 - Skiing Day. We deliberately chose to budget for a ski day this holiday to both make memories and to spend meaningful time with the Bectell’s. I have a testimony if the joy and grounding that can come from good relationships with cousins. We had a wonderful day at Castle Mountain ski resort and learned a lot about ourselves. I had the chance to ride the lift with Abby after a couple of frustrating runs trying to keep up with the Bectell cousins who are good skiers. It was a prime opportunity to talk through lessons on not comparing as well as the process of developing talents. Abby shared some insightful thoughts as she asked why some of my family struggles so much and we discussed the power of keeping the Law of chastity and the Word of Wisdom. She shared her frustrations dealing with puberty and striving to overcome being overly worried about what others thought about her and I caught a glimpse of the beautiful and insightful woman she will become. She reminds me a lot of Stephanie with her faith and ability to self-examine. Looking forward to helping her achieve her potential this year.

Other similar experiences were had throughout the day as I marveled at uncle Jeff’s skiing skill and passions and watched Josh valiantly work at conquering the snow board and share Bens excitement at learning to ski black diamond runs. 

I learned again why I don’t enjoy Black Diamond runs when I accidentally ended up on one following Josh down the hill. As I alternately tumbled and maneuvered down the crazy slope, cursing Josh as I went, I also remembered that I’m not getting younger either!!

All in all I truly felt like our intent and purpose for the Day was achieved.


Friday, Dec. 28 - temple day! Today we packed up early from Liz and Jeff’s and headed to Cardston to spend an amazing day with the Bruce clan doing multiple temple ordinances. We stared with Baptisms and were overjoyed to be together with all 4 of our currently at home children worthy to join us including Mia’s first time. To be sitting at the recorders desk with Ben in the font baptizing Mia, Josh witnessing with Grandpa Bruce and Jen and Abby watching from the other side of the font was a truly special and rewarding moment. To know that we are unitedly gathering Israel on both sides of the veil and walking the covenant path together as a family is an incomparable joy to me.

After baptisms, and a traditional trip to the temple cafeteria, Ben took the girls over to the temple street Stake center to babysit the cousins while the siblings did initiatories and endowments. Wonderful to stand in the prayer circle with all Jen's siblings and their wives and to have Josh with us. As I passed through the veil and pondered the promises of power in the priesthood extending to my posterity through all generations of time, my thoughts turned to Steph and Tyler and the next generation unfolding with their news of a baby, my prayers went to heaven for all my posterity with hopes of a forever family filling my heart. Heavenly Father, please bless all my children (including son and daughter in laws) and grand-children with Faith in your wonderful plan.

After the temple we went and picked up Ben, Abby and Mia from the church. They were a bit worn out with some frustration and learning about the challenges taking care of young children but everyone still intact. We soothed the experience with some DQ ice cream and headed to Mark and Shannon’s in Lethbridge for a long anticipated Harry Potter Party. We have been blessed to have some extra time spent with their family this year.

Saturday Dec 29 Today we packed up in Glenwood with all our Christmas accumulation and headed to Sparwood. I was thankful I remembered to bring the car top carrier as we barely squeezed everything in even with it. Only issue happened when I loaded it up in Dad’s garage without considering the height of the door! Dad  helped me pull it off and re-attach it outside and we were on our way after a wonderful time spent with my parents and Angie.

We arrived in Sparwood and went to the arena for the traditional hockey game and skate after a wind blown drive. Unfortunately we can’t seem to find skates that work for Josh. His feet just ache in anything we try. Other than that it was an enjoyable outing with much needed exercise and a few old men trying to be young again trying to keep up with the young guns.

The afternoon we prepared for and set up games and gift exchange at the church. Mom and Dad Bruce's  family no longer comfortably fits in their home with all the many grand kids. We enjoyed great food, games and the traditional Chinese Christmas. Mia was able to participate this time as she’s 12. They both learned some patience as the luck of the draw didn’t always leave  them with their favorite things.

Joshua spent most of the time racing around with the little cousins. They loved it and he’ll make a great Dad one day.

Ben enjoyed spending time with Patie, Ethan, Tyler and Levi (Patie’s friend who joined the church 4 months ago)

Ended the day with a good family prayer and discussion. I love that aspect of our family culture. Our kids love to have discussions together. 

So on the whole, it has been a very Merry Christmas so far this year!
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Sorry its a bit long, but it captures our amazing 2018 Christmas week!

Just arrive home today. Holiday's are good, but it's nice to come home too! 

Happy New Year, Sam. Make this year great !!!

Dad.

From Sam - The Power of the Book of Mormon

Hello everyone and Happy New Year!

This week was great. I got to skype home and see all my favorite people. I miss you all so much, these next 12 months look like a long time but I know that it will be over before I know it.
This week as a missionary we don't get any extra holiday and relaxation time. It's actually a time where we are working hard.
About weeks ago I found someone who has near perfect English. When I first met her I felt like I have met her before, her name is Doris, but as I got to know her I found it was impossible to even see her because she stays in Mzuzu and she got to Lilongwe 1 day before I met her. Thought of pre-existance are definitely on my mind. But we started teaching her and her sister because she was staying for a couple weeks. One day she went to the hospital for a check up and they found lumps of breasts cancer so she decided to perform surgery the same day. When we went to check up on her we found this out and she is very weak and can barely stand or sit up. What we decided to do was to read the Book of Mormon to her on a daily basis and we've been doing this for that past 2 weeks. We've been reading chapter by chapter and explaining the parts she doesn't understand. As I've been helping her understand the Book of Mormon I've been understanding it so much more than I ever have in my life. (And I've read it 5 times on my mission and I've started my 6th) Her sister is even noticing a difference in how fast Doris is recovering and her attitude about everything. I know that God blesses all those that except the missionaries in their homes.
As we've read the vision of Nephi (1 Nephi 11-14) we've been able to teach the Great Apostasy and the Restoration in detail and helping them understand that as well. There are times where it was very hard for them to understand anything. All I would say is "Do you want to be a Nephi or a Lamen and Lemuel?" It's been great.

Personally I want to be a Nephi I want to have unshakable faith and go and do the things which God needs me to do. I want to be able to hear the voice of the spirit and act on the promptings I receive. Most of all I want to be me. Because who else will? I'm the only me that could ever be and I'm the only one who can. 

Recently I have loved to listen to "The Little Drummer Boy" because of the words in the song. Music has a profound influence on my and this song has made me cry a few times.
Here are the lyrics:
Come, they told me pa-rum pum pum pum

Our newborn King to see, pa-rum pum pum pum
Our finest gifts we bring pa-rum pum pum pum
To lay before the King pa-rum pum pum pum
Rum pum pum pum. rum pum pum pum
So to honor Him pa-rum pum pum pum
When we come
Little Baby pa-rum pum pum pum
I am a poor boy too, pa-rum pum pum pum
I have no gift to bring pa-rum pum pum pum
That's fit to give our King pa- rum pum pum pum
Rum pum pum pum, rum pum pum pum
Shall I play for you, pa-rum pum pum pum
on my drum?
Mary nodded pa-rum pum pum pum
The Ox and Lamb kept time pa-rum pum pum pum
I played my drum for Him pa-rum pum pum pum
I played my best for Him pa -rum pum pum pum
Rum pum pum pum, rum pum pum pum
Then He smiled at me pa-rum pum pum pum
Me and my drum

Everytime I here the last 3 lines I tear up, then I hear "Then He smiled at me" and all I want is for Jesus to be happy with what I've been able to do. Everytime I hear this song I want to "Play my best for him" because his love is the most desirable thing in the world. 
He's happy with who I am despite my weaknesses.
This Gospel is true and it makes me so happy. What makes me sad is when people reject it. I've had a taste of what the 3 Nephites feel. I sorrow for the sins of the world and just want people to live and except the Gospel. A real missionary doesn't want a person to live the Gospel, he wants the person to choose to live the Gospel, because if it is not their choice they can't be truly happy.

I love you all, be awesome and choose to play your best,
-Elder Smith

Pictures:

-Christmas Pizza




-Fixing my bag for the second time(We'll see how long this one will last)


-Dinner at Prisca's(One of my favorite recent converts)








-Baptism pics








Video:

Apostasy is Real


Wednesday, December 26, 2018

December 25, 2018

Sam's Mission Call with the Family

Part 1



Part 2




Merry Christmas and by the time I email you next it will be a happy new year.

This week was great. Though without snow it doesn't feel like Christmas. But there is the Christmas spirit in the air. I'm writing this before I call home so I'm so excited to call home and talk with Josh and Ben and the rest of my family.
This week I have felt more like a missionary than I have in a long time. We picked up our mission president from the airport because we had our Christmas social this week. It was lots of fun, the Assistants came with them. President Kupu didn't proselyte with us but in the short time we spent with him I learned so much about missionary work and got pumped up to do so much better.
Being a missionary is freaking awesome and if you are thinking about going on a mission, pray about it, strengthen your testimony and go on a mission(Unless your a sister, then it's between you and God) I know I have grown so much, both physically, mentally and most definitely spiritually. My testimony is pretty solid but I've been told it can get even better. 
I have hit and past my year mark and it's weird to think that just over a year ago I was sitting in my home hearing mission stories from Josh. I only spent about 6 hours with him before I left on my mission. 24 months sounds like a long time, but now I'm counting down from 12 months to go until I can try to bear hug the living tar out of my brother because I miss him so much. 

I love you all,
Merry Christmas!!!

-Elder Smith

-The dance of the kids





Pictures:
-Christmas social


(i got gifts and cake and got wrapped up as a santa. It was so much fun)





















-My 1 year mark Shirt







-KFC with my companion and Robert Banda


-Elder Madsen and Elder Funaki going ham on the punching bag



-My flat picture


-My Christmas present to me(Drink, Pringles and Pop)


December 19, 2019

Home Coming!!!